I'm Sorry

We have all done or said things we wish we could take back. I know I have. But once it is out there, it is impossible to take it back. Feelings can get hurt, and our pride sometimes gets in the way of apologizing. A sincere apology can make a difference and it can lead to forgiveness, the subject of my last two messages. Here are some of the excellent reasons for saying the words "I'm Sorry" and really meaning it.

1. When you sincerely say I'm Sorry it helps the relationship by showing the other person that you respect them and you care about their feelings. 

2. Saying I'm Sorry helps soften and ease the anger and hurt feelings of both parties. Pretending something didn't happen just harbors the ill feelings, and makes it difficult to move forward in the relationship. Relationships can actually be strengthened by admitting one's mistake and apologizing.

3. Saying I'm Sorry demonstrates integrity. It shows both you and the other person that you are sincerely trying to do the right thing. And doing the right thing is an act of integrity and good character.

4. When we apologize to our children or a close family member, it sets a positive example for our children. We want our children to have good relationships with each other and with the other members of our family. When we make a mistake, as all humans do from time to time, saying I'm Sorry shows our children compassion and love for them and for others. It is a valuable lesson that we want our children to learn and practice. 

5. Saying I'm Sorry is not a sign of weakness. Quite the contrary: it shows strength of character.

Showing respect for others, improving relationships, demonstrating integrity and compassion, and teaching our children good character are all excellent reasons for saying I'm Sorry and really meaning it. The more we practice this spiritual discipline, the better off we will all be, and God will be pleased with our effort, I am quite sure.

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